Building You Up,Cutting You Down

Be careful who you depend on for your self-steem.If you depend on others,the invalidator will shower you with compliments until you are totally dependent on him,then he will take you apart piece by piece until you are in his control.
The whole idea is to get you introverted and introspective so you don't notice what is going on outside yourself.Once you start looking anxiously and self-consciously at yourself,the invalidator will subtly draw your attention to all your most negative qualities.This will make you feel weaker,more susceptible to control.
By doing this,the invalidator can pull you down to size.He may feel that he worries too much,while you usually appear calm and confident.If he can get you to come down to his level and start worrying more,then he feels superior.Abd oh!by the way,he will be the first to offer to help.
After a while,you worry about what he thinks,What he will do,Wether he will be angry at you or not.You stop looking at yourself after a while because you see so much wrong with you that you totally depend on him for your sense of worth.
And then when even he doesn't want you.......?

BEAUTIFUL STORIES TO SHARE WITH EVERYONE.........!

"THERE WAS ONCE THIS GUY WHO IS VERY MUCH INLOVE WITH THIS GIRL.THIS ROMANTIC GUY FOLDED 1,000 PIECES OF PAPER CRANES AS A GIFT TO HIS GIRL.ALTHOUGH,AT THAT TIME HE WAS JUST A SMALL FRY IN HIS COMPANY,HIS FUTURE DID'NT SEEM TOO BRIGHT,THEY WERE VERY HAPPY TOGETHER.UNTIL ONE DAY,HIS GIRL TOLD HIM SHE WAS GOING TO PARIS AND WILL NEVER COME BACK.SHE ALSO TOLD HIM THAT SHE CONNOT VISUALIZE ANY FUTURE FOR THE BOTH OF THEM,SO THEY WENT THEIR OWN WAYS THERE AND THEN.........

HEARTBROKEN,THE GUY AGREED. BUT WHEN HE REGAINED HIS CONFIDENCE,HE WORK HARD DAY AND NIGHT,SLOGGING HIS BODY AND MINDJUST TO MAKE SOMETHING OUT OF HIMSELF..

FINALLY WITH ALL THE HARD WORK AND THE HELP OF FRIENDS,THIS GUY HAD SET UP HIS OWN COMPANY........

YOU NEVER FAIL UNTIL YOU STOP TRYING. ONE RAINY DAY,WHILE THIS GUY WAS DRIVING,HE SAW AN ELDERLY COUPLE SHARING AN UMBRELLA IN THE RAIN WALKING TO SOME DESTINATION. EVEN WITH THE UMBRELLA,THEY WERE STILL DRENCHED. IT DIDN'T TAKE HIM LONG TO REALIZE THEY WERE HIS GIRL'S PARENTS.

WITH HEART IN GETTING BACK AT THEM, HE DROVE SLOWLY BESIDE THE COUPLE, WANTING THEM TO SPOT HIM IN HIS LUXURY SEDAN. HE WANTED THEM TO KNOW THAT HE WASN'T THE SAME ANYMORE ; HE HAD HIS OWN COMPANY, CAR, CONDO, ETC. HE MADE IT! WHAT HE SAW NEXT CONFUSED HIM, THE COUPLE WAS WALKING TOWARDS A CEMETERY, AND SO HE GOT OUT OF HIS CAR AND FOLLOWED... AND HE SAW HIS GIRL, A PHOTOGRAPH OF HER SMILING SWEETY AS EVER AT HIM FROM HER TOMBSTONE AND HE SAW HIS PAPER CRANES RIGHT BESIDE HER.........

HER PARENTS SAW HIM. HE ASK THEM WHY THIS HAD HAPPENED. THEY EXPLAINED,SHE DIDNOT LEAVE FOR FARNCE AT ALL. SHE WAS ILL WITH CANCER. SHE HAD BELIEVE THAT THE WILL MAKE IT SOMEDAY, BUT SHE DID NOT WANT TO BE HIS OBSTACLE..... THERE FOR SHE HAD CHOSEN TO LEAVE HIM.....

JUST BECUASE SOMEONE DOESN'T LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU WANT THEM TO, DOESN'T MEAN THEY DON'T LOVE YOU WITH ALL THEY HAVE. SHE HAD WANTED HER PARENTS TO PUT HIS PAPER CRANES BESIDE HER, BECUASE, IF THE DAY COMES WHEN FATE BRINGS HIM TO HER AGAIN.....HE CAN TAKE SOME OF THOSE BACK WITH HIM.........

ONCE YOU HAVE LOVED, YOU WILL ALWAYS LOVE. FOR WHATS IN YOUR MIND AMY ESCAPE BUT WHATS IN YOUR HEART WILL REMAIN FOREVER.

THE GUY JUST WEPT.... THE WORST WAY TO MISS SOMEONE IS TO BE SITTING RIGHT BESIDE HER KNOWING YOU CAN'T HAVE HER, SEE HER OR BE WITH HER EVER AGAIN........HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND.

FIND TIME TO REALIZE THAT THERE IS ONE PERSON WHO MEANS SO MUCH TO YOU, FOR YOU MIGHT WAKE UP ONE MORNING LOSING THAT PERSON WHO THOUGHT MEANT NOTHING TO YOU.......

Worm Aphobia

have you ever encounter people who are worm Aphobia? Thats me,any kind of worm either it is little tiny worm I am afraid,i don't know for me it is strange like snake,I never ever touch worm even worm picture or video,movie,Im scared.I really don't know.hehe all my friends said worm is harmless it wont bite or bother me but for me its not Im really scared of of it.